Here you are never alone! Believe it or not, your masculine soul craves to be seen and wanted in all its fullness—the good, bad, and ugly—and to be met with unconditional love. Your deepest longing is to know that even in your most shame-filled places you will receive kindness, hope, and companionship that compels you to live more wholeheartedly. I will offer you wisdom, insight, and guidance born from and refined in the fire of my own struggle.
Here you will find hope for your struggles in relationships, faith, and sexuality beyond religious clichés. I believe that most problems that arise in your life stem from broken beliefs about God, others, and self. Together, we explore unhealed places of grief, pain, and trauma in your story and how it recurs in our closest relationships with varying degrees of dysfunction, sabotage, and destruction.
Here your brothers rally with you to fight the lie that you are not enough, and your fear of being defined by your failure. We fear that if we were to let anyone see inside they would be disgusted and disappointed. Yet the beauty of the Gospel is that God’s extravagant, scandalous love for me is never diminished by even my most egregious failure. This metric of God’s radical love embodied in other men reveals the transforming power of grace!